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Pay equality

Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Jul
06

Saying “No” Takes Practice

Posted by Lizzie

Grandparents are apparently supposed to spoil their grandchildren with many toys. I happen to not care one way or another about certain grandparents spoiling their grandchildren like this. With Pee Wee I was always able to say “Well, I’m not Grandma” and be done with it. With Mags I can also shrug it off- except for the “throwing fits gets me what I want” phase she seems to be going through.

Mags can’t seem to understand that I won’t respond to tantrums. She assumes that I’m like her grandparents (and/or her father). She will look me straight in the eye right before she begins with an angry tirade as if to tell me “Oh yeah? Well watch this!” I am super-mom, though, and am able to tune her out quite well. When she’s exhausted herself she’ll stop and peek out at me to see if she’s getting a reaction. When I’m still not paying her any attention she’ll finally get up and go about her regular business. This behavior has escalated since her cousin (a little tyrant, if I may so say) was up and was quite good at the throwing tantrums mode of getting what she wanted. Mags seemed to like it that way and has been testing Grump and me. Grump, sadly, doesn’t have to ability to tune her out and most of the time will get >this< close to giving in. When I’m not with him to put my foot down, he does actually give in.

Just a few minutes ago she and Grump came home from “just getting a pack of hot dog buns”. Mags was happy to show me her new horse figurines. Seems that Grump couldn’t resist buying her these toys because “she was just going on and on”. She’s got a lot of these little figurines (they’re nice quality and slightly expensive) and, what do you know, she’s already got the ones Grump broke down and bought her today. *sigh*

He’s a hard one train, my dear husband. I’m thinking maybe I should go along from now on because it doesn’t bother me at all to say “no” when the occasion warrants it. Mags is slowly learning that about me, but I’m pretty sure she’s also learning how to properly manage her father. Good luck to him when she becomes a “needy” teenager.

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