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Pay equality

Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Nov
28

Yum, yum in my Tum

Posted by admin

I have no appetite control when it comes to Thanksgiving dinner. My friend (with whom we spent the day) made an absurd amount of pies and cookies and… brownies. I love brownies. She knows I love brownies. Why would she make brownies?

Anyway, I’ve lost a total of 27 lbs so far. That’s a lot of weight for someone who stands a total of 5 ft 1 inch. I love it. I have a before/after picture, but I’m not going to post it here. Just know that my before picture currently gives me nightmares. I can’t even imagine I was that big. Thankfully my second chin has gone the way of the wind and my face no longer jiggles. Yes, I meant jiggles, because quite frankly I was getting fat. And I don’t need to be fat.

The kids had a blast. My friend has a 6 year-old boy and Mags was chasing him around like she was his shadow. He was really nice to play with her all day. By the end of the day she was calling him “husband” and had declared them married. We asked why we weren’t invited to the wedding and she said they got married in the bathroom. LOL!! I’m pretty sure the little guy didn’t even know he was married. My daughter just decided that they needed to be married and then it was time to sit on the blanket while his older brother pulled them around the dining room. It was hilarious.

My friend’s husband built a fire for us in the dining room (no, it wasn’t the table- they have a wood burner) and we all sat around it chatting. It was a fun time for the grown ups for sure. My friend and I have been friends for 21 years and we’re amazingly similar in manner and humor. So her and I didn’t really even have to say a whole lot to have the other person cracking up. Our husbands would just shake their heads at us. She’s been married to her husband longer than I’ve been to mine, so hers told mine “You see? You see what I deal with?” Grump hasn’t been out there very much1 and isn’t quite sure how to react to our idiocy. My friend2 told him he needs to take the stick out of his butt and start laughing. By the time we left he was indeed having a good time. He declared that their house would be our permanent Thanksgiving stop from now on. I had to agree with him on that.

Today I’m catching up on some work and housecleaning. No Black Friday shopping for me. I can’t stand the crowds (buy online, people, and save yourself the headaches). My friend got up and went though. She called because she was upset at some crazy people and I just laughed at her. That’s what she gets for not listening to me. Right?

So all told, we had a magnificent Thanksgiving. The best we had in years. I’m glad we made the choice to forego family. It was a good decision– for everyone.

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Jan
01

Happy New Year

Posted by Lizzie

Happy New Year!

I’ve been really busy the last few days. I’ve been wondering which direction I’m going to take this blog and I think I finally figured it out. So, that means things around here have got to change. But not before I figure out how to change it without breaking everything. My dashboard is telling me there’s another update to WP to download, which is completely annoying. How many times am I supposed to upgrade in one year? Sheesh! Anyway, I’m looking into taking the site off of WordPress for that reason and a couple of others. I love my WP, but I can’t keep up with all the updates and changing. I like code, mind you, but I don’t really have the energy to keep messing. Also, I want to add some things to the site that will go along with the direction I want to go. I’m hoping this will all work out in the end. I tried this before and failed miserably. This time I’m planning things out a lot better.

There’s been a lot of stress around here too. So, my health has been really suffering. I’ve had two major episodes in the last week. They were worse than anything I’ve had previously. I got out of bed and went to lie on the couch and slept the entire day- both last Wednesday and last Sunday. I was so tired that I was dreaming of being tired. Family members tried to get me to wake up and do stuff, but I just couldn’t. No sooner did I blink my eyes than I was back to sleep. The pain wasn’t as bad as it sometimes gets, unless someone touched me. Mags crawled up with me and put her elbow on my arm, which was like she was hitting me with a hammer. My energy finally came back, obviously, but I lost two whole days. My illness seems almost to be progressing, but it’s not supposed to progress. What’s up with that?

In other news, I’ve learned to knit. Well, yesterday I taught myself the basics (trying to remain stress-free for the entire day). It’s not nearly as easy as crocheting (my grandmother taught me that when I was a young girl and I’ve kept up with it, if you can believe that), but it’s different, sooo…. At the rate I’m going I’ll have an infant size scarf done by next Christmas. Wish me luck. :)

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