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Pay equality

Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Jul
21

Going Full-Time

Posted by Lizzie

I’ve officially gone from part-time college kid to full-time. I’m a little worried that I won’t be able to take care of all of my obligations. So once again I’m pruning my online “jobs” and sticking with only those that are proven to help my income. I’m hoping I’ll be able to maintain my 3.5 GPA. I can’t go below 3.3 or I lose my scholarship and place in the Honors program. I really, really want to graduate with honors. That would be such an accomplishment for me.

After graduation, I’m going to get some travel insurance and go on a long vacation. I have a few years to plan and save, so I can do it well. Oh, and I can work while on vacation. Hopefully.

Grump and I decided that when I graduate, and if I make enough money, he’s going to be the one to stay home. A house-husband! He’s better at the day-to-day stuff around the house, hates to go out to work, and would be perfect for the position. :) I like getting out of the house every so often- even if that means locking myself in a room at home. I’ve decided that when I do get gainful employment, I’m building an office, padding the wally, and installing locks. I wish them luck getting past all that. ;)

I’ve only got a couple more weeks until fall semester, so I’m gearing up. I may stress out a lot over the coming months. Please be patient with me. This will take a little adjustment for me. And I’m a little frightened. I mean, I know I’m pretty smart (mostly) but I’m not very organized.

Wish me luck.

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Oct
25

College Math Chatter

Posted by Lizzie

I had it up to my eyeballs in Math class yesterday. Living with this illness and dealing with the fog is bad enough. But when I sit in class, in the front of the room, and can’t hear the professor because of conversations on the other side of the room… Well, that was it.

There is a group of women who sit on the far side of the room. Every Monday and Wednesday night they converse among themselves as if Math class isn’t happening around them. The professor sometimes raises his voice and sometimes gives them looks, but he never asks them to quiet down. It was especially bad last night- at least for me. I was foggy and was having trouble focusing because of the chatter. At one point one of the women actually stood up to illustrate a point she was making to the other women. It was unbelievably disrespectful, not only to the professor but to those of us who were paying $300 per credit hour to attend the class.

After class I waited for everyone to leave. Then I spoke with the professor. I explained to him my condition and why it’s difficult for me to concentrate on the lesson when there’s so much noise coming from the other side of the class. He seemed to understand and said we could work out a hand signal when it was getting too loud over there. That miffed me a little. I told him that I didn’t want special treatment for my condition, just some consideration for someone paying to attend the class. I also told him that other people felt the same about what was going on over there. That was a little white lie as I have no idea if others get just as annoyed, but it did help my cause. We talked for about half an hour and he agreed to control the class a little better. I’m satisfied with that. I just want to learn. That’s why I’m there, afterall.

The funny thing about these women is they’ll chatter all through a discussion and then ask redundant questions when they realize where we’re at. After the prof goes through an equation, explains what he’s doing, and gets the answer, one of the women will pipe up “So, how’d you get that answer?” Lovely. Just lovely. The man is too nice to say “You’d know if you shut your trap and paid attention” so he goes through the whole thing again. Which has put us 3 chapters behind. What a pain.

My first semester I took Intro to Business and there was a similar situation the first day of that class. A group of younger people were sitting in the back talking among themselves, oblivious to the lecture. That prof stopped the lecture, walked to the back of the room and said “I would love to hold up the rest of the class for your benefit, but they’ve paid money to be here. If you can’t quiet down, I suggest you withdrawl from the course, because the next time you interrupt you’re losing class points.” And that was the end of that. My psych professor, too, makes sure that the class stays focused and respectful. He simply asks “Can you hear me back there?” when someone starts talking too loud. I really like that approach.

Hopefully my math professor will show some spine next week. I’m sure I’ll be the class pariah for taking away all the fun. I don’t care though. Class time is not the time to be talking about idiot husbands and barfing dogs. I don’t think they should even be in that class if they can’t take it seriously. And I really hate to think what they’ll be like when they finally do get their nursing degrees.

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