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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Sep
28

Homecoming

Posted by Lizzie under Parenting a teen parent, family 

Pee Wee is getting ready to go to the first dance of the year. Homecoming, of course. So, she was off at the mall getting her lovely dress, with her lovely shoes, and some not-so-lovely jewelry. I ended up making her the shoes back for something more reasonable, because she’s just not in the spot where she can spend that much money on herself. She’s got a child now and she’s got to save some money for him. It didn’t go over very well. But she ended up getting some different shoes for half of what she paid for the first pair. She wondered if she should also get herself a swimsuit for next summer, but then decided she didn’t want to be out of style. Ha. Big fail for me, apparently.

Speaking of KJ, he’s up to 15½ pounds and 25 inches long. He’s very much a little ball of cute chub. He talks a lot (and very loud) and is trying to sit up. I’m planning on putting up some pictures eventually. He’s so cute, though. And is so ticklish. He giggles and giggles for his Oma. I have to say, though, I’m not looking forward to the time when he won’t need so many naps. Those really do come in handy with little Mr. Bundle of Energy. Mags keeps herself entertained by playing with him or playing her LeapFrog, so that’s good. But sometimes… Well, it takes a lot of patience, right? This is why God thought it smart to bless me with only one small child at a time.1

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Sep
26

Cold Weather

Posted by Lizzie under family 

It’s starting to get cold here now. Pretty soon we’ll be putting out bird feed and attaching the tire chains. I’m so not looking forward to it. The snow, the cold, the constant shivering do nothing for me. They just make me crabby and sore.

Last winter was relatively mild. Some say this winter will be too. But I’m pretty sure they’re wrong. The last few mild winters were preceded by a mild, almost hot, climate. It didn’t start getting really cold until the end of October or the first part of November. I was considering turning on my furnace for the first time last night. Yikes! I woke up stiff as a board.

It’s also time to shell out the money for little hats and mittens. Ah, the joys of going out in the snow to play. I hate the snow. I hate to play in the snow. But I’ll be out there every day making snow men and angels and possibly having a snowball fight. Then I’ll cry because I hurt all over. Ha! The sacrifices we make for our children.

Hopefully the gas companies don’t gouge us this year. I keep praying that Gov. Strickland will put some price caps on the utilities- like we had before Taft was in office - so that East Ohio can’t get us with $18mcf prices. I don’t see that happening this year. Maybe if we get a Democrat in office something will be done about those outrageous prices.

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Sep
23

We’re Not Bad

Posted by Lizzie under Parenting a teen parent, family, health&wellness 

Grump and I were discussing big topics today. You know, like the mortgage, the light bill and car insurance. Fun stuff like all grown people have to discuss. I told him that we’re relatively lucky (in comparison to a lot of people) because we have a beautiful house and car and can afford insurance on both (for now). You’d have thought I told him I was hitting the sack with some landscape man. It was hilarious. He insists that we’re hurting and poor. Even though we have (so far and knock on wood) enough money to cover the bills and still have a little left over for extras (I consider the satellite, cell phone and Internet connection to be extra), he thinks we just don’t have anything.

It’s a discussion we have a lot, it seems. He’s running around screaming “The sky is falling!” and I’m counting my blessings. We’re an interesting pair in that respect, I guess. Though, I will admit I get pretty frustrated having to remind him that I’ve been poor and we are really not poor (knock on wood).

*** Warning: Whining Ahead ***

The last couple of days with Pee Wee have been trying my patience, though. I’ve asked her to do a couple of things to keep Mags entertained while I do some work and each time she’s used KJ as an excuse for why she can’t help me. But every morning at 6:45am, she brings him to me and walks out the door to go to school. I say this because every morning at 6:45 he needs his diaper changed and his breakfast and I haven’t quite had time to wake up yet. She never thanks me or wishes me well for my day. So, I really, really had a problem with her refusal to help me out. I feel selfish when I tell her that I won’t be helping her out while she’s going out with her friends or spending time with her new boyfriend. Except for the fact that she doesn’t help me out when I need it. That really irritates me. (For instance, right now Mags is in my ear screaming that she wants to watch videos on nickjr.com. Pee Wee was supposed to help bathe her and get her ready for bed.)

The doc says too much stress is making my health issues worse. Gee, ya think?

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