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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Jun
22

Out of The House

Posted by Lizzie

I’m taking a few days away from the tubes for a while. I’m overdoing it and my health is really suffering. I’ve taken on too many projects on top of what’s going on in my offline life and it wasn’t a good idea. I’ve really got to learn to pace myself when it comes to jobs. I mentioned in my last post that I’m only able to keep two jobs right now and that’s all good for me. Neither one of those jobs is full time so I can get away for a few days to regroup.

I was walking around town today and noticed a lot of commercial real estate for sale. I thought that was really odd. But I asked a friend who’s a realtor if that there are more properties on sale than usual and she looked into it. Seems that it’s about steady for right now. I’m secretly wishing I had an office away from home so I could actually leave to go to work and still be self-employed. How nice would that be? I could leave all this craziness here while I did the “normal” thing and went out into the world to work. Ha!

I didn’t think that was my goal. But who knows? It’s possible. Not now, of course. Maybe some years down the line. At any rate, there’s a website production company setting up downtown and I was thinking of submitting my resume to them. Part-time out of the house work would probably do me some good too. Too much together time makes for a crazy Flynn household.

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May
29

A Cabin in the Woods

Posted by Lizzie

Yesterday I blogged that I was thankful for everything that I have. And I am. I’ve been working on a budget today and realized that we’re a lot better off this month than I thought previously. Looks like we’re going to be able to pack our Briggs and Riley and go to our “cabin” in the woods soon. Maybe even as soon as we get our “economic stimulus” check. I’m sooo thrilled!

We haven’t been down to Grand Haven since last August (I think) and I really like spending time down there. It’s like a little village in the middle of nowhere, but there’s plenty to do. We usually get a two-bedroom pet cabin, so we can take our pooch. This time we might not be able to take him, though, because of all the car seats. Mags and KJ sure do take up a lot of room for such little people. At any rate, when we go down, we take our food and other supplies and just hang out for a few days. We were hoping to hang out for a week this time, but sadly we can’t. Three days will be plenty, I think.

The resort isn’t really a “resort” like you think. It’s a woodsy type place (cabins) and there is a swimming pool and a club house. Plus horse back riding, golf, hiking, etc. It’s really nice. Last time I went up in the woods and didn’t come back for hours. It was so incredibly peaceful. I can’t wait to get back. It’ll be so refreshing. I can’t access the Internet down there, so I can’t be stressed out by jobs (or lack thereof) or silly Internet drama. I won’t be able to check my email or my page stats and I won’t be able to fret if no one is clicking my ads. I’ll just be free to be without. I love that. When we go I’ll make sure to take a few pics and post them here.

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May
22

Gaining Some

Posted by Lizzie

I have been trying to lose some pounds for a while now. I’ve been doing yoga, dancercise and even considered top diet pills. All to no avail (of course, just considering the diet pills doesn’t help, buy you get my gist). I have been steadily gaining the pounds. I was having a difficult time understanding it, but then realized something.

My medication for the FM is probably making this happen.

One of the methods of treating Fibromyalgia is anti-depressants. I can’t take the usual kind- such as Lexapro - because I’m allergic to SSRIs. So I’m taking Elavil in small doses. Still, one of the side effects is, sadly, weight gain. And it’s working a little too well in that area, I think. Yikes!

Another thing that could be working against my efforts to slim down is my reproductive ills. I have a 3.3 cm (1.15… inch) cystic mass on my left ovary. My Gyn says that it’s nothing to be worried about, but that it could be messing with my hormones. That can cause a whole range of issues, most of which I’m certain affect me right now. The solution? Medication, of course. Birth control pills. I think we all know what one of the side effects of those is. That’s right, folks. Weight gain.

I should be thinking about my self in a more positive manner, but I am absolutely convinced that some of my medical issues are stemming from my weight. For instance, my lack of energy. Were I a few pounds lighter I would no doubt have more energy. Also, my hip and ankle issues. Hello? I’m 5 foot 1 inch tall and my poor ankles and hips aren’t designed to carry this much weight. I think if I dropped down to a more healthy weight these issues would resolve themselves. Ya know?

Of course, it doesn’t help that my beautiful daughter weighed in at 161 lbs when she gave birth and almost two weeks later is a svelt 120 lbs. She’s lost 40 pounds and that makes me green, green, GREEN with envy. Seriously, I want to do that. LOL! I would like to mention, though, that I’m happy for her because she’s gotten past the danger of the pre-eclampsia and my jealously is purely selfish wishing. She still looks much better than that cheeky friend of hers that I can’t stand.

Today we go for a long walk and HOPEFULLY I’ll be able to manage my pain afterward.

Keep your fingers crossed.

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