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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Jun
27

Back

Posted by Lizzie

I’m back. I’ve decided that limited Internet activity is probably the best medicine for me right now. I was completely surprised that my 5 days without Internet went by so well. I actually had a really nice time away. And the weather held up- mostly. That was a plus. Nice weather, happy kids, and lack of online interaction was amazing. I’m completely up for re-prioritizing right now. It feels good.

I have, unfortunately, gained some weight in the last week. I think it’s because of my medication, because I wasn’t eating more and swimming is supposed to be really good exercise. So I’m going to look at some diet pill reviews to see if I can find anything that won’t cause heart failure or something similar. I realized something was up when I could fit my swimsuit on Sunday, but on Wednesday the damned thing was almost too tight to put on. That alarmed me in a lot of ways. I don’t know what’s going on with that.

As I sit here writing this, my daughter- Pee Wee- is doing everything in her power to irritate me to the point of murder. She really, really wants to check her myspace. I told her “when I’m done!”, but that just makes her more determined to irritate me away from the PC1. It might work to the point where I shut down the computer and refuse to let her on.

On a lighter note, I’m off to get myself a replacement cell-phone. For some reason the keypad on mine refuses to work and I’m eligible to have it replaced for free. I love it! I hate this phone with a passion and secretly wished to smash it with a hammer. No, I didn’t smash it. I think it knew it was hated and committed cellphone suicide. Hopefully, they’ll fix the ugly thing and find it a home with someone who loves a phone that turns itself off at the most inopportune times.

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Jun
20

Calgon take me away

Posted by Lizzie

As you’ve noticed, I haven’t switched blog platforms yet. I plan on it eventually. I’ve just been too busy.

I went to the doctor and they found a 3.3 sonometer1 multicystic mass on my ovary. What is that, you ask? Well, I don’t know exactly. I don’t even think I care at this point. I’ve got medicine and maybe some treatments of some sort (the ultra-private, feminine sort) and then “we’ll see”. Yay. I’m so confident in my doctors. Bleh.

KJ is doing well, though Pee Wee is having some issues. I want to spill my guts about it, but I know I shouldn’t. She’s having issues and it’s no one’s business really. It’s just that it’s effecting me and my health and I feel like ripping my hair out by the roots. I want to make sure the my teenage daughter is a good mom, but she makes it so difficult. I have never met someone so stubborn in my entire life. And, no, I’m not nearly as difficult as she is. My mother, who has known me since birth, even said that I’ve got nothing on her. Like I said, I’d love to go into specifics, but…

I want to buy a new swimsuit and go away on a long vacation. Just Mags, me and Grump. No one else. I want to leave the world behind and just get away. As it is right now I don’t even have enough time to post once a day for a job and (because of my health) had to resign. That just really, really sucks on so many levels. I still have a couple of gigs where I don’t have to post daily, so I’m not completely unemployed (THANKFULLY), but this one was so me. I liked it. It was just a daily gig and I can’t do daily. Not right now. Isn’t that wonderful?

Yes, I could be more dedicated and stronger and work harder. Except that I can’t right now. I really have to focus on getting well and then I can be strong and dedicated and whatever else I’m expected to do as superwoman. Yes, I have goals and dreams and know that it’s important for me to work hard to realize them. I’m just really frustrated right now. Overly frustrated. On the brink of out-of-my-mind insane, really.

So, I wasn’t really going to whine. I was going to focus on something positive. There’s a silver lining in every situation and my full intent was to find it. That didn’t work so well, did it? Well, maybe next time.

P.S.

I just noticed that some of my categories have doubled themselves since I moved hosts. How funny is that?

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May
29

Loads of Diapies

Posted by Lizzie

We’ve been getting a lot of baby gifts lately: via mail, walk-in, etc. The main theme of these gifts, though, is clothing. And all the same size. Pee Wee’s friends are getting KJ all kinds of cute little outfits and so are our relatives. The problem is that we’re running out of diapers.

I breastfed Mags exclusively so I knew that breastfed kids go through a little bit more diapers than bottle fed (Pee Wee was bottle fed). I forgot that part though. Every time KJ has a meal, he fills up his pants. We’ve already gone through the two mega packs we bought before he was born as well as the ones the hospital had in his isolette. Pee Wee, unfortunately, has since run out of funds and isn’t going back to work until the second week of June. Uh-oh. Now I wish I would have told everyone to just buy diapers.

Steve’s a little irritated because of the diaper buying. Afterall, we just convinced Mags to use the potty for her BMs (last month). No more diapers! At least that’s what we were singing for a little while. We’re over that now. :)

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