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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Nov
24

Texting by Dishwater?

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I heard my daughter talking about an unlocked phone the other day. Her own prepaid phone was dropped in the dish sink at work while she was washing dishes and texting at the same time (um, yeah). Anyway, I had no idea what she was talking about because I’m old and apparently out of touch. So I looked it up.

I had no idea that you couldn’t take your cell phone to other companies. I know that sounds really strange, but I was under the assumption that when you bought a phone it was yours to do with what you please. Who wants to buy a $200 phone, switch plans and pitch their phone? That’s just crazy. But I guess that’s how cell service providers are able to offer the plans that they do (and stay competitive, of course). People want whatever phone they see and are willing to sign the two-year contract to get it. My friend was like that with her smart phone.

So, Pee Wee is looking to buy an unlocked phone so she can have a really nice phone to use with her prepaid minutes. She’s having some serious issues now that she destroyed her original phone. I wonder if it ever crossed her mind that there was a reason she shouldn’t be texting AND doing the dishes at the same time. Probably not. The kid is going to have carpal tunnel before she’s 20. She can’t stand that she doesn’t have a phone and I won’t buy her one. So, her friends and her are coming up with alternative solutions to this crisis. Good luck to them. :)

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Nov
14

Redesign time

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My husband is an antique buff. Mostly because his mother gives them to us when she finds something else she likes with which to replace whichever piece she’s giving us. Anyway, he doesn’t appreciate modern furniture at all. And it’s been a real fight because I prefer modern design and want at least one of the rooms in my house to look like it belongs in the 21st century.

Now I think I’m going to be able to get my way. I’m planning on changing my bedroom into something from HGTV “Designed to Sell” or something. Something that doesn’t cry “Victorian age!” and make me see ghosts everywhere I look. It’s been a hard fight, but I’ve won and now I’m excited. What to add?

I don’t think I’m going to buy a new dresser. I think I’m going to redo the ones we already have. I think with a little sandpaper and some paint I can get really creative. Plus I can add some hip wall art and a new comforter set. He’ll hate it, but then I’ll be spending the most time there, so who cares? He’ll just have to deal with the changes. It’s not like there aren’t a lot happening now anyway- mostly his fault. So I can do what I want to the bedroom.

Hopefully I’ll be able to redo the living room soon and I’ll feel so much more at home. The ghost of my in-laws will be vanquished and I’ll laugh with mad glee. He’ll grumble and complain. But I’m used to that. One thing at a time, right?

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Nov
02

Holiday Season already

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Christmas is coming and it’s time to buy presents. My own preference runs along wholesale electronics, jewelry and general clearance goodies. I love to shop online (I think I’ve probably mentioned this about 1000 times) and LOVE to get packages. I’ve already started to get stuff coming to the house for the kids. Pee Wee is going crazy trying to figure out what’s coming. I’ve been taking it out to my friend’s house so she can’t snoop. I think my favorite part of Christmas is keeping the kids in suspense. There is nothing funnier than saying “I got you a Christmas present today” and seeing their eyes light up. Then, of course, they try to get information out of me, but I’m too good. No, not even a hint. LOL! I love it.

Halloween was kind of a bust this year. Everyone is doing poorly and there were a lot less houses giving out treats. Mags didn’t seem to mind so much, as long as she didn’t have to walk. We were smart and brought along an umbrella stroller. She was riding like a princess. I’m hoping next year she’ll decide she wants to run from house to house- that way we’ll get done earlier and we won’t have to push that stroller. :)

The church on our block gives out candy, cookies, hot dogs, hot chocolate, cider and punch for the festivities. I always love to stop there and chat with the ladies. Of course, they think we should come to their church, but they are so nice. When I was younger a lot of churches and businesses did similar things for the kids during trick or treat. Now, the only one in the neighborhood is this church. I told the ladies that I hope they don’t stop it, because it is a nice break. Then I gave them a donation and said to use it for hot dogs next year. :)

Next up: Thanksgiving. I used to love that holiday, but since marrying Grump I’ve learned to hate it. This year I want to cook and invite people over. I have a sneaking suspicion that once again we’ll be running from house to house trying to eat and visit. I am so not looking forward to that.

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