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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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21

Midlife Crisis?

Posted by Lizzie

I was washing KJ’s crib bedding the other day and it finally really hit me. I’m a grandmother. Ok, I’ve known this for a while, but some part of me was still in denial. I guess it’s because of my final decision to have no more children. I’m young enough to be able to have another child safely, but getting to the point in my life where caring for an infant would just be too much. The moment by body finally understood what my mind was saying I felt really old- as if I should be looking toward retirement while baking pies and knitting socks (I can do the knitting, but the baking isn’t my style).

Pee Wee asked me if I wanted to have more children- and for awhile during her pregnancy I did. But no. I’ve reproduced enough, I think, and I’m done with it. At this point in my life it’s time to give all of my attention to the family I already have and to concentrate on realizing my own dreams. Another baby would put a damper on that. Some people just aren’t meant to have dozens of children. I’m sure now that I’m one of those people. That didn’t stop me from mourning my youth, though.

What could’ve been- should’ve been- would’ve been… Yikes. Am I entering a midlife crisis here or what?

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Aug
09

Getting Away without Getting Away

Posted by Lizzie

I have found the perfect Christmas gift for my in-laws. They love to use their hot tub during the winter months, but they’re lacking any cool spa accessories.

SpaScenes offers an inexpenisive and creative way to hide that hideous cover and add a certain ambiance to the whole experience. Simply choose the scene you want then cut it and add it to the cover of your hot tub or spa. Installation is as simple as lining up and cutting to fit (click here for full instructions). After it’s installed, you have a relaxing backdrop to enjoy your spa. My personal favorite is the Moss Falls scene. There are other scenes as well, such as a view of a tropical sunset with “Plum Palms” or a bright sunlit beach with “Aqua Palms”.

Any of the SpaScenes products are sure to impress. When my in-laws use their hot tub in the winter, they can use the backdrop of a tropical beach to remember their honeymoon in Hawaii. And their family and friends can have their own vacation without ever hopping a plane. When wet, the scenes have the illusion of movement, so it won’t be hard to imagine being somewhere more fun and romantic. They’re also designed to withstand the weather and the spa cleaning chemicals, so they won’t quickly fade away. If they get tired of the Hawaiian scene, they can always switch out to the waterfall scenes- a different view for a different mood.

I think this will be a perfect gift for my in-laws. They’ve already done so much with landscaping around their hot tub- an effort meant to help them get away from all the stress. This will no doubt be a welcome addition toward that purpose. Christmas is only a few months away, afterall.

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Aug
09

Looking for Work

Posted by Lizzie

Grump’s attempt to refinance the house (which we didn’t really need, but he thought we did) has failed. Because of the housing market right now, house values are way down- which means so is ours. Even though we did mega amounts of work on the old bird ours is still $8K less than it needed to be. I can’t say that I’m too terribly upset. He wanted to pay off the credit cards, which meant our house payment would have been higher. We really can’t afford a higher house payment.

Still, I’m looking through job descriptions and trying to find a part-time something outside the house. Probably on weekends. We can use the extra money to get the credit cards paid off and I can use the time away from the house. There’s not a lot to do around this neck of the woods, but I’m sure I can find something that’s completely part-time. There have to be places where the employees want some weekends off. Nothing that will pay really good, but that’s ok. That’s what I’m going to school for- to eventually make 10x minimum wage.

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