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Should I get one?

Today Mags came out and told me she wants a video game (perhaps a PS3 like her grandmother’s neighbors own, hmmm?) and I was shocked. We don’t have a video game and never have had one. But she’s had the opportunity to play on one. I put her on Nickjr.com and, sure enough, she knew just what to do with those games. Her poppy, she said, was helping her learn.

Now we’ve got to consider buying a game system. If we do, though, it will only be educational games. I really don’t want her to get addicted nor do I want to fight about game time every single night. I just don’t know if I can rationalize, with an honest heart, never getting one. I think at this stage of our country, it’s almost necessary to have some kinds of accessible electronics for kids. Otherwise they could get behind the other children.

I’ll have to draw the line at her request for her own cell phone, though.

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Calgon?

I am so tired. I have been running myself ragged all week. School and my other responsibilities are kicking my butt right now. I was sitting in my English class the other day and found myself just staring at the exit sign – I wanted out of there so bad. I just kept thinking about all of the other things I could have been doing at that moment. I used to really love English, but this guy just really rankles me and, so, makes me hate it. Why oh why can’t I get a new professor? Anyway, then I come home and watch KJ until Pee Wee comes home at 9:30pm. I’ve lost my mind by the time I’m ready for bed at 10:00pm.

It’s funny how I look forward to the weekends so that Pee Wee will be home from school and I don’t have to get up to babysit. I think it would be different if I didn’t have a bunch of school work to do and I didn’t have to get up at 6:15am to get ready for my day (KJ doesn’t wake up until 7:30am). I have to get up early just to shake off my Elavil. Gah! And don’t even get me started about Grump’s sudden obsession with turning off the alarm so that I sleep in until Pee Wee is ready to leave for school. I hate that because I don’t have time to wake up. Argh.

I’ve only got a few more months until Winter break, though. I’m counting down the days. :)

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Pay equality

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search – in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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