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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Mar
12

“Your Child is Absent”

Posted by Lizzie in family, irritations 

I’m not feeling so well today and because of that I’m easily annoyed. That means that when Pee Wee’s school called again to tell me she was absent I kind of lost my temper.

The school administration has known since the last week of February that she was going to be on maternity leave until 6 weeks after the baby is born (effectively the rest of the school year). They have even set up a tutor to come here for five hours a week (she gets 1 hour for each day that school is to be in session. Woo-hoo!). The doctor has been in touch with the school administration and the teachers are supposed to know that they need to gather her assignments every Monday.

So, for two days now, the school has called to tell me she’s absent. Today was too much.

I called them up (the call to me was automated) why she’s still on the “absent” list. Well, they say, according to our paperwork she’s supposed to be back in school. I say “Really? Does ‘6 weeks after delivery’ mean anything to you’?” So, around we go. I had to call the administration building to get it “sorted out” again. I let them know that I wasn’t very happy with their lack of communication and the special services director told me that the paperwork had been filed correctly. The high school must have made the mistake.

I then decided to look at Pee Wee’s assignment sheet. Right there, written in large, bold font were the words “Expected Absence for 2/28/2008 - 2/29/2008″. WTF? Listed in the assignment area were test dates with notes from teachers to make sure to appear that day. So, I call the school back. I ended up telling them to check with the administration office, because Pee Wee won’t be back in school the rest of the year. I also asked them to tell her teachers that they have to excuse her from in-class tests. Apparently, one teacher already marked her as incomplete. I told them, in no uncertain terms, that they are to remove that mark and make sure the teacher knows that Pee Wee is on maternity leave. There was a little bit of fussing from whomever was on the other end. I don’t care. I’m about sick to death of this school system. It is their job to work with students and families. They seem to think it’s my job to do whatever they want and to make their days easier. No. That’s not how it works.

The tutor comes at 4 so I’m going to ask her to make sure the high school office understands what maternity leave means and why it’s important for patients and their caregivers to follow the doctor’s advice. It doesn’t matter one bit to me if they don’t like the fact of teenage pregnancy. They’re making the stress level in my home worse than it needs to be. So, I’ll just have to be the “difficult” parent.

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