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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Feb
28

Pee Wee on the Couch

Posted by Lizzie in family, health&wellness 

Good news. Pee Wee is home. Unfortunately she’s stuck in bed (or on the couch). She wants us to buy one of those adjustable beds for her and put it in the livingroom. Um, no. We’ve got a really nice, deep sofa and she can relax on that.

She’s taking a medication to keep her contractions from coming back. It’s called Procardia.It’s generally used in heart patients to prevent the arteries from contracting. But they’re using it to keep her uterus from contracting. She has to take it every four hours, on the dot. One of the side effects of the drug is that it can cause nausea. Anything that causes nausea in Pee Wee really just induces fits of vomiting. She’s not very good at working to keep that stuff down. So, every 4 hours, half an hour after she takes her pill, she vomits. A lot.

The doctor’s say that as long as she’s not vomiting all her food up, then she’ll be ok. They’re not very concerned that she’s vomiting not long after her pill. I assume because she’s taking the quick dissolve kind and she’s not throwing everything up. The good thing is she’s not contracting. The bad news is she’s feeling like garbage and is sick to death of the vomiting. Oh, and I get to clean the vomit bucket. That’s really bad news. (I kid!)

She’ll be taking this medicine until she hits 34 weeks. Then she stops. At that point, if labor starts again that’s ok. After 32 weeks the baby is able to survive and the risk of cerebral hemorrhage is way down. The baby will spend minimal amount of time in the NICU- if he has to go in at all. As long as she doesn’t deliver before 32 weeks.

She’s not doing well lying on the couch. Already she wants to get up and play on the computer. But she’s not supposed to spend too much time upright for fear that gravity will pull the baby down on her cervix and cause labor to start again. Getting her to understand this is really difficult. She’s only 16 and wants to get up and about. Plus she knows everything (doesn’t every teenager). I’m playing Mean Nurse and am not liking that at all.

I keep telling both of us that it’s only 7 weeks. Just 7 weeks.

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