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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Feb
26

Pee Wee in Hospital

Posted by Lizzie in family, health&wellness 

I wasn’t going to blog about this for a while, but I’m a little stressed.

Pee Wee is pregnant. I’ve known for a while. It was shocking at first, caused me a lot of tears, but we worked through that. I refused to let her go through this alone, but insisted that she at least work to help pay her medical bills. She was doing well in school and everything was fine. She’s just recently started needing to wear maternity clothes and we’ve been shopping for some baby stuff.

Last Sunday she went into labor. She’s 26 weeks along- way too early for baby to come. Luckily she’s in one of the top 100 hospitals in the country, with one of the best NICUs in the country. They were able to stop her labor, but she had dilated 2 centimeters by then. So, now she’s lying in an antepartum room hooked to all kinds of monitors. She’s only allowed to walk from her bed to the bathroom and, if she gets released soon, won’t be able to return to school or work until the baby is born.

I stayed with her all of Sunday, Monday, and only came home for a little while today. I needed to get a few things done and Mags wanted to be with me for a while. Pee Wee is stressing because she’s alone now and is anxious for me to come back.

The hospital is 30 minutes away from us and I don’t drive. I’ve got to depend on my husband to get me up there as well as watch Mags. He’s stressing from that. He’s never had to take care of her 100% alone. It’s kind of funny, but it’s also grating.

At any rate, until we can get her stable, I’ll be sleeping on the pull-out couch in her room. Then she’ll come home and sleep on the couch.

I’m keeping my fingers crossed that the baby doesn’t come until at least mid-April.

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