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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Jul
11

No, I can’t

Posted by Lizzie in Parenting a teen parent, irritations, work from home 

I’m babysitting again. Pee Wee is off to work (her infection taken care of) and she’s left me with KJ. Normally this would be ok (actually, for work it is ok) but yesterday she almost drove me over the edge. I took KJ with me in the morning for Mags’ dentist appointment. I knew that I wouldn’t be back in time for Pee Wee to go to work and thought that best. Then when she got home from work (around 5 pm) she pronounced herself ill and went to lie down. That’s fine. But then she asked me if I would watch KJ while she went to a friend’s birthday party. Honestly, I was seeing flames.

Um. No. I won’t do that. You’re sick remember? Yes, she did, so she went to lie down again. That was fine. So, I kept him with me all day yesterday. Today she wanted me to keep him in the morning after she got her medication. I explained to her that I had to work before she went to work, but apparently that didn’t register with her. She laid him in his bassinet beside me and went upstairs to do her hair. Lovely, huh? I would so love to walk away and teach her a very strong lesson, but then the only person who suffers there is KJ. Not fair to him. Now I’ve got to spend some time brainstorming and researching ways to make my darling daughter see the light. All the while fighting with Grump and giving Mags the attention she needs. Some days motherhood really sucks.

I’ve been considering trading my coffee fix for diet pills, because they apparently give you the energy boost that you may need and help you lose weight. I’ve gone back and forth about this for a while now, but now I’m thinking about it again. It looks like I’ll be getting up bright and early every morning at 6 am (I hate, hate, HATE getting up that early) to get my stuff done. I don’t even know if I’ll be able to accept the Honors College scholarship, because I’ll have to go to school full time to get it. It really doesn’t look like I’ll get much support in that area either. LOVELY! Makes my heart sing with joy.

It’ll be a good day when I lay down the law and two people in this house stop acting like I owe them something. Ya know?

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