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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Aug
21

Midlife Crisis?

Posted by Lizzie in family 

I was washing KJ’s crib bedding the other day and it finally really hit me. I’m a grandmother. Ok, I’ve known this for a while, but some part of me was still in denial. I guess it’s because of my final decision to have no more children. I’m young enough to be able to have another child safely, but getting to the point in my life where caring for an infant would just be too much. The moment by body finally understood what my mind was saying I felt really old- as if I should be looking toward retirement while baking pies and knitting socks (I can do the knitting, but the baking isn’t my style).

Pee Wee asked me if I wanted to have more children- and for awhile during her pregnancy I did. But no. I’ve reproduced enough, I think, and I’m done with it. At this point in my life it’s time to give all of my attention to the family I already have and to concentrate on realizing my own dreams. Another baby would put a damper on that. Some people just aren’t meant to have dozens of children. I’m sure now that I’m one of those people. That didn’t stop me from mourning my youth, though.

What could’ve been- should’ve been- would’ve been… Yikes. Am I entering a midlife crisis here or what?

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