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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Mags and Insomnia

Posted by Lizzie in family 

I am so tired. Last night Mags was up and up some more and still up again. She was having really vivid dreams and driving her parents straight up the wall.

She went to bed fine. Then, sometime around 31, she starting kicking the crap out of my back. She was sideways in her bed for the best possible angle for the kicking. As she was giving me the beating, her little arms were flailing and she was yelling that she didn’t want to go. Usually when she gets like this I am able to calm her pretty quick. I would just tell her something like “That’s fine, honey, you can stay home” and she’d fall peacefully back to sleep. This time it didn’t work.

I tried rubbing her, singing to her, giving her water, begging her to please stop kicking me. She’d fall back to sleep for a little while and then I’d feel the kicks again. Then the yelling and the arm thrashing. It was so very frustrating. It’d take a while to get her back to sleep and then she didn’t stay asleep. Grump was not very happy with it. He didn’t get home until after 1am and wanted to sleep. Mags figured if she couldn’t sleep then neither could we. I don’t blame her. Insomnia is quite lonely. I just wish she could’ve found another way of waking me up.

With my FM, those little kicks were extremely painful. She’s got some power in her legs, my little angel. She seemed to hit all of my backside tender points. It was excruciating. At one point I got up and went outside for a little while. I think that was around 5am. Already my legs were aching and my feet were stiff. Because when I don’t get adequate amounts of sleep I go into full episode mode. This means the fatigue and the debilitating pain. I’ll be miserable for the entire day. Thankfully Pee Wee doesn’t have to work so I won’t have to watch KJ. Miserably, Pee Wee doesn’t have the wherewithal to help care for Mags.

We’re leaving in an hour to take Mags to the doctor for her yearly checkup. I’m going to mention these dream states she goes into. I’d like to know what’s causing them and how we can help her get more sleep. As long as it doesn’t involve needles- which would probably make her sleeping issues that much worse. We’ve got to figure something out because she starts school soon and not getting enough sleep really isn’t a good thing for her.

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    1. New York Acupuncturist (1 comments.) Said on August 8, 2008 @ 11:55 pm:

      Have you ever considered acupuncture for your insomnia? Acupuncture is a wonderful treatment for insomnia. You should look for a good acupuncturist in your area.

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