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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Dec
01

Flying the Nest

Posted by admin in Parenting a teen parent 

It’s starting to be a lot of work holding my little chubby grandson. He’s getting close to 20 lbs. already and really doesn’t like to help hold himself up. I was trying to play with him and he just kept flinging himself back onto my chest. Of course, he thinks that’s hilarious and laughs and laughs. I think to myself “Ouch!” and “Geez, boy, please sit up.” We get along perfectly.

Pee Wee is still adjusting to being a mom. I have to remind her to pick up his stuff, throw away his diapers, call the doctor and all kinds of things. It gets frustrating for both of us because she gets offended and I think she should know better. I worry about how both of them are going to manage when she moves out in a couple of months1 because I don’t know if she’s ready for all that responsibility. But what can I do? I’m going to let her fly the nest and hope she doesn’t do a belly flop from 50 feet up.

She’s almost done with all of her school work, so that means she’ll be graduating early. And she’s talking about getting engaged to and moving in with her boyfriend. I don’t know if I approve of all of that, but she turns 18 in March so she can do whatever she wants then. I’ll be sad to miss the graduation ceremony, though. I was looking forward to that. I’ll have to wait 12 more years for Mags to graduate. They’ll probably do away with the ceremony completely by then.

A couple more months and I’ll know exactly what they mean by “empty nester”. I can’t decide if I’m excited or anxious about it. I guess it depends on the day and if Pee Wee and I are getting along. Keep your fingers crossed for her.

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  1. And, yes, she is moving out. []



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