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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Jan
18

Day Dream Believer

Posted by Lizzie in family, sinful pleasures 

I’ve been entering the Dream Home 2008 Sweepstakes everyday since I remembered HGTV did it. I go and look at that house to get my spirits up. It works well when I add it into my meditation time. Ah, the joys of dreaming (except I’m going to win this time. I just know it).

Something else I like to do is watch HGTV. I love those design shows- but my husband hates them. I’ll get something in my head (”We need to make this POP!”) and change something around while he’s at work. One time I painted a mural on Mags’ bedroom wall. Another time I converted the diningroom in to a fun kids area. When we finally broke down and bought new furniture, I had to have the big, oversized stuff and my curtains had to complement (not match) them. I was very serious. When I’m losing my mind because of the stress it’s nice to sit down and watch rooms be transformed.

I’ve noticed that a lot of the design shows are hiding the tvs. Either behind a fancy picture or inside a console. When they’re inside the console, you don’t open the front doors to get to it (like the old way)- they use popup tv lifts so that the tvs magically appear by rising out of the console. This is especially cool with the huge hdtvs. The picture frames magically move one way or the other (or split in two) and voila! The game is on. I love that. It’s awesome. Right now I have my tv in an armoire in the livingroom, but I would really love to make it pop out of nowhere like that. I’m not really sure where the DVD player and cable box would go, but that’s ok. I’m sure I could bust a whole in the wall and make a spot for them.

So, dreaming of things I would love to have, but will never be able to afford, is actually pretty therapeutic for me. Like window shopping, without leaving the house. Steve wonders how that can put me in such a good mood, when daydreaming like that reminds him of what little we have. Pfft! I tell him there was a point when I just dreamed of being a homeowner. Now look at me. I just dreamed of owning a big, overstuffed couch. Now look. I dreamed of sitting on a warm beach watching the sun come up. I finally got to do that. Dreaming’s not so bad for me. Especially when so many of my dreams have come true. I like to imagine if I want it bad enough I’ll get it.

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