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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Archive for September, 2008

Sep
29

10 Down

Posted by Lizzie

I am starting to make some progress on my diet. It’s hard, though, when the husband and oldest child keep bringing in fattening food. Oh, and when the mother-in-law insists on giving me half of her pie. What are they thinking? I am now considering using something like alli to give me a little boost. It seems to be reasonably priced and a relative said she had some luck with it. If I can just get over that hump that keeps me rosily round.

I have, so far, lost about 10lbs. That doesn’t seem like a lot, I know, but my weight generally varies from day to day by about 20lbs. So, I kept an eye on it. When it I was feeling swollen (20lbs is more than just a little water weight, I think) I’d mark my weight, then I’d mark it again when I was better. It has stayed pretty consistent for a few days and so I’ve declared myself mildly successful- so far. Now I have to push just a little bit harder. Not too hard, of course, but just enough to get to another 10lbs lost. Then I’ll start feeling 10000% better. Right? Probably not, but I’ll look a whole lot better when I catch a glimpse of myself in the mirror.

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Sep
28

I Need A Locked Room

Posted by Lizzie

As I wrote the other day, I am having trouble getting my bearings with my school schedule, my children and everything else. I think my health is on a downward spiral because of it all. So, once again, I’ve got to look at the different areas of my life and wonder what I’m going to cut out. What is best left to wither on the vine while I struggle to work on that other thing?

I tried a few days last week to get up early and stay up late. Sadly, it was a miserable (literally) experience. I literally couldn’t walk Thursday. I was exhausted and in tears. So, I decided I’m not doing that crap again. If I can’t fit something in my day without sacrificing my rest, then it’s not going to be part of that day. Period. I think I can get my immediate family a little bit on board with that, but my mother is getting more and more intrusive. She may be the one to impose herself in a time period that’s been set aside for something else. I’m going to have to really put my foot down.

One thing I’m thinking about is getting another computer and putting it upstairs in the empty room- with a thick door w/ lock. I won’t be able to do that until after the first of the year, but it’s something I may have to consider. I do a lot of my work on the computer (including my school work) and if I’m not available downstairs in the office (a corner of a room without a door or lock) then they can’t interfere.

Speaking of interference… here they come.

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Sep
28

Homecoming

Posted by Lizzie

Pee Wee is getting ready to go to the first dance of the year. Homecoming, of course. So, she was off at the mall getting her lovely dress, with her lovely shoes, and some not-so-lovely jewelry. I ended up making her the shoes back for something more reasonable, because she’s just not in the spot where she can spend that much money on herself. She’s got a child now and she’s got to save some money for him. It didn’t go over very well. But she ended up getting some different shoes for half of what she paid for the first pair. She wondered if she should also get herself a swimsuit for next summer, but then decided she didn’t want to be out of style. Ha. Big fail for me, apparently.

Speaking of KJ, he’s up to 15½ pounds and 25 inches long. He’s very much a little ball of cute chub. He talks a lot (and very loud) and is trying to sit up. I’m planning on putting up some pictures eventually. He’s so cute, though. And is so ticklish. He giggles and giggles for his Oma. I have to say, though, I’m not looking forward to the time when he won’t need so many naps. Those really do come in handy with little Mr. Bundle of Energy. Mags keeps herself entertained by playing with him or playing her LeapFrog, so that’s good. But sometimes… Well, it takes a lot of patience, right? This is why God thought it smart to bless me with only one small child at a time.1

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  1. My children are 13 years apart. []