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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Archive for May, 2008

May
23

Supporting the blogger?

Posted by Lizzie

There’s a question at the Mom Blogger Club about what our husbands or SOs think of our blogging. I said that mine thinks it’s a waste of time. And that’s true. Unless I’m getting some money for it. Then he makes sure that I’m not interrupted and I have plenty of time to finish a thought. That’s not too very often though.

I’m a little envious of the ladies who said that their husbands (or SOs, I guess) are completely supportive of their blogging endeavors. I think the only time Grump said anything positive about my time online was when I was able to pay the car insurance with what I made. Then, of course, he was thrilled. Usually, though, I just hear a bunch of moaning about how all my time is given to my “hobby”.

I can’t wait when I’ll be able to open my money account and pay all the bills before he even gets a chance to see them. That will be a happy day for us both. I’ll be contributing a lot more and he’ll have more money which equals more “Happy Husband”. That’s another one of my goals, I guess. Add it to the list. Damned list seems to be growing and nothing is getting crossed off.

I blame Twitter.

P.S.
It completely annoys me that every time I post, WP thinks I want the article title to be the date. No, WP, I want to put something in there. STOP saving the date instead. ARGH.

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May
23

A Holiday Weekend

Posted by Lizzie

I completely forgot that it’s a holiday weekend here in the States. I was happily being distracted by Twitter when I noticed that people were mentioning gearing up for the three-day weekend. I would consider that fabulous but we’ve not yet received our stimulus payment and Grump doesn’t get paid this weekend. Yay!….ahem.

We’re not planning anything spectacular this weekend. I think we’re going to a graduation party on Sunday (my cousin who wants a gold chain for her grandmother’s pendant) and then on Monday we’re going to go to Grump’s mom’s house. I’ll be watching ‘The Andromeda Strain’1 Monday night and then it’s all back to normal on Tuesday. Isn’t that thrilling? Don’t be too jealous.

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May
22

Gaining Some

Posted by Lizzie

I have been trying to lose some pounds for a while now. I’ve been doing yoga, dancercise and even considered top diet pills. All to no avail (of course, just considering the diet pills doesn’t help, buy you get my gist). I have been steadily gaining the pounds. I was having a difficult time understanding it, but then realized something.

My medication for the FM is probably making this happen.

One of the methods of treating Fibromyalgia is anti-depressants. I can’t take the usual kind- such as Lexapro - because I’m allergic to SSRIs. So I’m taking Elavil in small doses. Still, one of the side effects is, sadly, weight gain. And it’s working a little too well in that area, I think. Yikes!

Another thing that could be working against my efforts to slim down is my reproductive ills. I have a 3.3 cm (1.15… inch) cystic mass on my left ovary. My Gyn says that it’s nothing to be worried about, but that it could be messing with my hormones. That can cause a whole range of issues, most of which I’m certain affect me right now. The solution? Medication, of course. Birth control pills. I think we all know what one of the side effects of those is. That’s right, folks. Weight gain.

I should be thinking about my self in a more positive manner, but I am absolutely convinced that some of my medical issues are stemming from my weight. For instance, my lack of energy. Were I a few pounds lighter I would no doubt have more energy. Also, my hip and ankle issues. Hello? I’m 5 foot 1 inch tall and my poor ankles and hips aren’t designed to carry this much weight. I think if I dropped down to a more healthy weight these issues would resolve themselves. Ya know?

Of course, it doesn’t help that my beautiful daughter weighed in at 161 lbs when she gave birth and almost two weeks later is a svelt 120 lbs. She’s lost 40 pounds and that makes me green, green, GREEN with envy. Seriously, I want to do that. LOL! I would like to mention, though, that I’m happy for her because she’s gotten past the danger of the pre-eclampsia and my jealously is purely selfish wishing. She still looks much better than that cheeky friend of hers that I can’t stand.

Today we go for a long walk and HOPEFULLY I’ll be able to manage my pain afterward.

Keep your fingers crossed.

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