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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Archive for January, 2008

Jan
19

Weebles Wobble

Posted by Lizzie

My medicine seems to be making me gain weight no matter what I do. Of course, I don’t spend time in a gym, but that’s not the point. I’ve tried products like eca stack and Slim Fast and things like that. I used to weigh a very nice 125. I’m 5 foot 1 inch tall, so that’s not stick thin. But after having Mags I gained some weight. Just when I started getting it off my illness struck. Then I gained some more weight. Ugh!

I’ve been doing really good at managing the weight. I’m not going up any further (this is a good thing considering how short I am). But I want to lose some weight too. Should I take pills? Should I do more Yoga? Should I eat nothing but soup? I certainly am not going to jog or do aerobics or anything that will cause me to sweat too much. Too much sweating means horrible pain the next day.

I’m trying to find a happy medium without stressing my body out too much. It’s hard and it’s depressing. Honestly, I’m not getting any younger, I’ve got this damned rash, and now everytime I look in the mirror I see a weeble wobble. Gah!

Maybe I’ll just cut and dye my hair. That might work. Keep your fingers crossed.

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Jan
18

Day Dream Believer

Posted by Lizzie

I’ve been entering the Dream Home 2008 Sweepstakes everyday since I remembered HGTV did it. I go and look at that house to get my spirits up. It works well when I add it into my meditation time. Ah, the joys of dreaming (except I’m going to win this time. I just know it).

Something else I like to do is watch HGTV. I love those design shows- but my husband hates them. I’ll get something in my head (”We need to make this POP!”) and change something around while he’s at work. One time I painted a mural on Mags’ bedroom wall. Another time I converted the diningroom in to a fun kids area. When we finally broke down and bought new furniture, I had to have the big, oversized stuff and my curtains had to complement (not match) them. I was very serious. When I’m losing my mind because of the stress it’s nice to sit down and watch rooms be transformed.

I’ve noticed that a lot of the design shows are hiding the tvs. Either behind a fancy picture or inside a console. When they’re inside the console, you don’t open the front doors to get to it (like the old way)- they use popup tv lifts so that the tvs magically appear by rising out of the console. This is especially cool with the huge hdtvs. The picture frames magically move one way or the other (or split in two) and voila! The game is on. I love that. It’s awesome. Right now I have my tv in an armoire in the livingroom, but I would really love to make it pop out of nowhere like that. I’m not really sure where the DVD player and cable box would go, but that’s ok. I’m sure I could bust a whole in the wall and make a spot for them.

So, dreaming of things I would love to have, but will never be able to afford, is actually pretty therapeutic for me. Like window shopping, without leaving the house. Steve wonders how that can put me in such a good mood, when daydreaming like that reminds him of what little we have. Pfft! I tell him there was a point when I just dreamed of being a homeowner. Now look at me. I just dreamed of owning a big, overstuffed couch. Now look. I dreamed of sitting on a warm beach watching the sun come up. I finally got to do that. Dreaming’s not so bad for me. Especially when so many of my dreams have come true. I like to imagine if I want it bad enough I’ll get it.

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Jan
17

School Antics

Posted by Lizzie

Math class this semester is a lot different than last semester. Some of the chatterboxes from then are in my class again- but this time they’re quiet. My professor’s not going to mess around with folks disrupting his class. One thing on the syllabus that stands out as pretty awesome is a line about cell phones. “Cell phones should be turned off before class. If yours goes off during a test you’ll be deducted 10% for the disturbance to other students.” Take that, chatterboxes!!

There was a nifty car in the parking lot last night. It had every kind of Dodge Charger accessory you can imagine. I immediately fell in love. So, I’m staring at this car, wishing I could drive it down to my dream home in the Florida Keys and who walks out to drive it away? Some little lady who didn’t look like she could see over the steering wheel. Why did I think that some hunk of a man would drive that baby away? Ah, but see I can see myself in it a easier now that she was driving it. Zoom!

My online course is off to a slow start. I have no idea what to expect. All I know for sure right now is that I had to download Visual Web Developer Express because Front Page isn’t available anymore. I’m a little disappointed that we aren’t going to be learning some other way to develop the code for our team websites, but what can I do? I guess I’ll be learning on only MS products. So much for Open Source learning. Ugh.

I’m off school until next Wednesday because of the holiday. Hopefully by then I’ll feel more comfortable with everything I’ve got to do.

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