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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Oct
01

Today is Good

Posted by Lizzie in Living with Pain, health&wellness 

Today is one of the best days I’ve had in a long time, I think.

When I first woke up I was sore and a little woozy. I thought for sure it was going to be a bad episode day. So, I went researching to see what the hell is wrong with me. I found a lot of things that just made me want to poke my own eyes out. (Have you ever done research on your condition to the point that you just knew you were dying?) Then I made a decision that I really hope I won’t live to regret.

I broke out the Cymbalta. Back in August I wrote that my doctor wanted me to take SSRIs and I refused. He’d actually given me samples to try, because he wanted me to find a working dose for me. I didn’t like that idea because of my previous experiences with those types of drugs. He was very insistent that I take it and that’s the last time I ever went back to him. I almost threw the samples in the trash. Who knows why I didn’t. Anyway, today I took one along side my pain meds.

I feel a lot better mentally. I can still feel the nagging pain in my arms and hips and everything is still really stiff, but I’m clear headed. That’s what’s really important to me right now. I have a test tonight and Math class and I’m just so sick of these damned episodes. I’m willing, at this point, to pretty much try anything. I’m getting desperate, I guess.

If this stuff helps me focus I’ll deal with the other side effects. If it keeps that dastardly fog at bay it may just become my best friend. We’ll see how it goes. I’m still going to find a Rheumatologist because I do think my condition is autoimmune. I have symptoms of both Fibromyalgia and Lupus (and I just found out Celiac Disease… huh?). I’ve even read that it’s possible to have both conditions at the same time. Talk about a maddening combination!

At any rate, the Cymbalta seems to have helped a lot so far. I really do feel so much better today that I have in a long time. That’s something to be thankful for.

Now, if I can get through that Web Tech test tonight I’ll be good to go. Keep your fingers crossed for me.

Update:
I had to throw it away. I had vivid dreams and couldn’t sleep. Didn’t do much for my pain after all. And certainly didn’t do anything good for my level of focus. Oh well. On to something else.

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