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Posted by Lizzie on Sep-5-2008

There’s a lot of talk about women’s issues this election cycle. Thanks to Hillary Clinton, and now Sarah Palin, we’re back in the spotlight. In that vein, Congress is pressing for a revote on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which failed to pass previously. McCain has come out again it:

“I am all in favor of pay equity for women, but this kind of legislation, as is typical of what’s being proposed by my friends on the other side of the aisle, opens us up to lawsuits for all kinds of problems,” the expected GOP presidential nominee told reporters. “This is government playing a much, much greater role in the business of a private enterprise system.”

I’ve recently engaged in a half-hearted IT job search - in anticipation of my eventual graduation from the Tech program. There seems to be a little available, but I’ve heard that women are not treated favorably in the IT industry. It would please me, and thousands of other women, tremendously if this actually became law. Would I know that my male counterparts were making more than me? Probably not. But this act would give me recourse should I find out about a pay discrepancy after the fact. As a woman hoping to work in a male-dominated field, I would feel just a little better knowing I had a safety net.

There was some talk that this law isn’t necessary. I beg to differ. I worked with a company (unrelated to the tech field) that cut me a mystery check. When I inquired to what the purpose of the check was, I was told that it was to make up for a pay difference between me and my male counterparts. I had no idea that the men were making that much more per hour than I was, but there was a lawsuit and the settlement agreement was that this company would pay the hourly difference to each female for whatever period of time they agreed to (I think it was 3 months, even though I’d been there for over a year at that point). I left that company not long afterward, but my eyes had been opened. The reasoning for the lower pay was that women are mothers and so are prone to miss work because of their sick children. Men, on the other hand, are more reliable and should be rewarded. Really?

At a time when a major political party has nominated a self-proclaimed “hockey mom” to be vice president, there should be no more “she should get less because she’s a mom”. This woman is seeking a job while parenting 5 children (and potentially helping parent a grandchild) so the reason listed above would apply to her and her pay should be cut significantly. Right? No. Wrong. Her husband will be able to tend to the children while she runs for office and he can tend to the children while she continues to govern Alaska (except that he’s got a full-time job plus an extra job on the side in the summer, but that’s not this issue). It’s only fair that the rest of American women enjoy the same equality in pay as the women who govern them.

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Aug
03

Non-Habit Forming?

Posted by Lizzie in Living with Pain 

My doctor recently prescribed a painkiller called “Ultram” (Tramadol) for me. He assured me that this medication wouldn’t bother me in the least and that it’s not habit forming. He said that it would help with my pain and there wouldn’t be any side effects should I run out of money and not be able to purchase any new. All those nice things that put me at ease.

The first pill I took didn’t do much for the pain. It did, though, make me slightly drunk. At least that’s what it felt like. I looked up the information online and found out that it is indeed moderately habit forming. I also found out that Tylenol seems to help kick start the medication.

Recently I came to the decision I was taking it too much. So, one day I decided to wean myself off. I didn’t take any pills that night. It was one of the worst nights I’ve ever spent- save for the night I was in labor. I couldn’t get comfortable and I felt like there were little creepy-crawlies under my skin. There wasn’t a whole lot of pain, just enough to make me agitated. I got up to go downstairs and try to sleep sitting up. It seemed like every time I was almost asleep I received a little shock to wake me up. I honestly couldn’t connect the lack of meds with the lack of sleep until it was almost morning. Then I was too mad to sleep.

My mother-in-law said this particular doctor was a pill pusher. I figured I could handle that. Afterall, I did refuse to take the SSRIs he tried to prescribe (I don’t do well with those kind of meds). I didn’t think he’d straight out lie to me to get me to take the medication. Now I’ve got to decide if I want to back to this guy or if I want to hunt yet again for another doctor.

From now on I take no medication until I’ve fully researched it myself. I don’t care what any doctor tells me.

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